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Hi! I’m MAYI CARLES, a tiny Panamanian artist with a T-Rex heart making a living on the Internet by being myself + owning my weird + sharing the lesson’s I’ve learned along the way, including the messy middle.

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It’s embarrassing to admit it, but it took a fre

It’s embarrassing to admit it, but it took a freaking pandemic for me to fully grasp the type of family I have. Mayi Carles Ferrer of the House of Nany and Mery, NEVER EVER again will I take for granted this immense privilege to carry their DNA and belong to this village. Amen.

For over a decade I’ve had the privilege of guid

For over a decade I’ve had the privilege of guiding creative entrepreneurs through the process of owning their magic, turning their life’s hiccups into a story or triumph, and most recently the remembrance of their bruja linage.

In essence, the core curriculum has always covered profit plans + marketing strategies + communication systems + website stuff and everything in between. But less and less the conversation ends up at sales funnels and newsletter sequences. Instead, there is a natural pull to crack open about life - about being human + about values and integrity + about pain and loss + about break-ups and heart ache.

What I’ve discovered in the field is we cannot pretend to build empires if our spouse is unsupportive, our relationships lack boundaries, our partners have hidden agendas, our habits are toxic, our traumas are unresolved and our nervous system is a hot mess. Mission impossible.

So I’ve been called to upgrade my own software (a.k.a. go to therapy militarily, attend temple religiously and love myself radically… FIRST) in order to have the bandwidth to hold sacred covens, to talk about hard things and to approach business in a holy-stic way. Cuz only when we are whole can we fulfill our truest purpose and hope to help others meet theirs.

Summer in the Western Hemisphere is a time of hibernation and deep reflection for me. It’s a season to hide in the shade and seek council from my spirit guides and Earth priestesses. It’s the part of the cycle were I’m my most creative, in silence. Mayic School ain’t gonna build itself.

There is nothing more beautiful than the light that shines through the cracks, the rebellion that grows from injustice, the captain that awakens in the storm. Bless the adversity that brought you here. Observe who you are becoming when you have the courage to break the chains and let go of everything that no longer serves you. That is your 2.0 version.

Psst… if you are reading this and someone is blooming after your departure, maybe the issue was you. Read that again and move out of the way.

La piel es de quien la eriza. Pero tus nalgas 🍑

La piel es de quien la eriza. Pero tus nalgas 🍑 son MIAS!

Abundance is the belief that there is enough for e

Abundance is the belief that there is enough for everyone. Wealth is not finite. The pie gets bigger. Heck, you bake your own damn pie.

Abundance is an attitude. It's the decision to believe that you can have whatever you need, in the quantities you need it. It’s the belief that there is always enough.

Abundance is a mindset. It’s a way of viewing the world, the people in it, and yourself. To trust that the Universe has your back, as long as you hold up your end of the bargain.

Abundance is having an excess of the necessary resources. Things like freedom, down time, freshly squeezed juice, true love, health, peace of mind, air conditioning and real friends.

Abundance avoids attachment. You stop holding on tightly to what you have because you trust there will always be more. And better. You feel comfortable allowing everything to flow into and out of your life.

Abundance allows you to dream bigger. Money provides opportunities, but only for those things you can afford. Abundance takes care of all the things that money can’t buy that take your life to the next level.

Abundance has no room for resentment. Someone who feels full does not envy the success of anybody else. The glory of another can’t negatively impact someone else. Al contrario. It simply means, there is more of where that came from.

Abundance makes you grateful. You can’t experience abundance unless you’re grateful for what you have. Gratitude creates the possibility of receiving even more in the future. BTW, how grateful are you right now?

Abundance leads to positive expectations. When you believe in abundance, you are positive about the future. You expect good things to happen and to continue happening.

More for others does not mean less for you. Abundance is not pie.

Suertuda yo, de cumplir 7 años de ser tu mami. Te

Suertuda yo, de cumplir 7 años de ser tu mami. Te amo con locura mi Oli Poli. Happy Lucky 🍀 7th Birthday 🎂

Time doesn’t heal all wounds. It just gives spac

Time doesn’t heal all wounds. It just gives space for things to sink in. It normalizes the pain. But the sting continues to sit there, unattended. No wonder there are so many people walking around projecting all that unprocessed bitterness everywhere they go.

El tiempo no cura nada que no se trabaje… que no se atiende… que no se prioritize… que no se cuide. El tiempo no sana ni shit. El tiempo no es magia.

What heals is what you decide to do with that time. It’s doing the work of going inward. It’s addressing your attachments and emotional history. It’s reparenting your inner child. It’s accepting your part in the narrative. It’s learning to rewrite your limiting scripts. And yes, it’s going to therapy.

You are the key to your healing journey, NOT time. NOT drinking more water. NOT sleeping earlier. NOT taking an online course. It’s having the courage to open the Pandora box!

Today we celebrate Summer Solstice - a new cycle,

Today we celebrate Summer Solstice - a new cycle, a brighter light, an invitation to see clearer, to hear clearer, to say clearer and to BE clearer, even if the journey seems foggy.

And as I find myself claiming back my rhythm and looking for my creative voice after our Mediterranean ♥️ escape, I stumbled upon one of my Communication 101 college notebooks. Coincidence?

On an eventful day like this, let’s take a closer look at our own communication style and how we phrase our views and needs to others. It’s an 👁 opening experience. OJO: Esto aplica para TODO en la vida y los negocios.

An “I” message is used in assertive communication to express our own feelings + circumstances, and seeks to avoid judgment + guilt + blame on the receiving end. An “I” statement focuses on the emotions and beliefs of the speaker rather than accusing the receptor.

The goal of using “I” in our discussions and negotiations is to lower the other person's defensive force shield. By making the narrative about ourselves, we are more likely to evoke a positive response, a change in behavior and who knows, even get a sincere apology.

Let me give you an example:

No. 1: You are lazy and inconsiderate because you never help me with the dishes when you come home.

No. 2: I feel really tired because I had a tough client meeting today. When you get home, I need help with the kitchen clean-up.

The first message is finger pointing. The second is “I” based and vulnerable.

One more.

No. 1: You are a bad person because you are shaming me for protecting myself, and then you play the victim card.

No. 2: I feel abandoned when you deny what happened and twist the story to maintain the status quo. I know you can see the truth and I understand it is painful. What I need is peace and healthy boundaries. I hope you can respect that.

Now it’s your turn. Fill in the blanks. And let’s have civilized conversations with those who deserve to be in our lives.

Amen.

Never Waste a Another Thank You Typically when so

Never Waste a Another Thank You

Typically when someone says Thank You we brush it aside with fake humility. We downplay it with a lame “You Are Welcome.“

What a waste of divine energy and the blessings that Thank You brings as a sign of immense gratitude.

Gratitude is a potent energy that opens superior portals.

Next time someone says Thank You, embrace it with confidence Try some of the scripts that I propose in today’s video.

This produces a multiplying effect of light that dominos.

Don’t you waste another Thank You or any other compliment again. Do we have an agreement?

Let’s this out loud, shall we? Tag that friend that always gives the best piropos, and say Thank You properly, like you mean it. And wait to see what happens next.

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